It is not that serious
People put too much time worrying about how others see them...who said it was about them? Let me tell you something, it is about you and your Almighty. Now get up and go do that thing you’ve been wanting to do. Take that leap of faith, try sky diving, take that cooking class...you get the gist-just go be awesome and let them talk. You CANNOT stop others but you surely can stop you...why do that?